In this series, we’ll share real stories of how women have found hope, courage, and a path forward at Dismas Home of New Hampshire.  Today, we’re sharing Deanne’s story. 

This wasn’t Deanne’s first program. She had sought help before but struggled to gain traction. She knew she wasn’t equipped to go out in the world quite yet. Then her case worker suggested that she try Dismas Home, and the difference was real.

“All the other places didn’t have as much structure,” said Deanne. “But at Dismas, there’s a lot of structure, and that’s so important. I really needed that help.”

The program at Dismas Home helped Deanne stabilize her health.  They began by catching her up on all the doctors’ appointments that she had missed over the recent years.  Under the guidance of the clinicians, she was finally able to reset her mental, emotional, and physical health. And she thrived under the structure.

Unfortunately for Deanne, money was an issue. “I came here with no money,” said Deanne, “So I told them that I needed to work.” 

To help Deanne get on her feet (but without affecting her in amazing progress), together they decided that she would work around 20 hours a week when the time was right. Deanne prioritizes keeping up with her curriculum, and if she misses a group meeting, she’ll catch up on her homework after the shift ends. 

Deanne takes pride in staying on top of her chores and work at Dismas Home. “Usually, I pretty much have everything done because I don’t like to slack,” she said, “I’m liking myself a lot more now that I’m sober and I’m taking care of myself.”

The accountability aspect of Dismas has really helped Deanne immensely.  “The groups here at Dismas Home helped me be accountable and make myself better. They really put a lot into each individual. They’ve helped me a lot with time management.”

Each day, Deanne gets up and enjoys a fresh cup of coffee before attending meetings, contributing to the home chores (such as dishes or taking out the trash), and working.  During her downtime, Deanne unwinds by watching a movie and connecting with her sponsor. 

“I learned so much from Dismas that I didn’t learn while growing up. I wish they would teach this in schools,” Deanne said.  

If she could share one thing with any woman who is considering treatment at Dismas Home, she said “don’t be nervous or scared or hesitant…because you’ll be missing out if you don’t come here.”   Deanne graduates soon, and she recommends Dismas Home to anyone who needs the extra help and support.  “It’s a great place to be.”